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Hey There –
Welcome to the Journal.
My name is Sonja and I am a healer, erotic educator, and writer of magic words.
Here on the journal, you’ll find posts with inquiries and practices that guide you into your body so you can get in touch with the life force within it. I write about topics like eroticism, intimacy, practical intuition, embodiment, relationships, sex, and non woo-woo spirituality.
Check in each week for new posts. If you like what you read, check out my 1:1 work and group programs.
BodyStory: Hunger Ayurvedic (Un)Recipe: Divine Spark masala
Though the fire element can hide unseen, it can always be felt in the body. The warming qualities of spices speak to that riddle. My jar of Divine Spark masala quietly sits in my kitchen drawer, nested amongst dozens of sister spices. Yet it’s not until it enters my...
BodyStory: Hunger Week 1
Welcome to week 1 of BodyStory: Hunger. Below you'll find the video and audio recordings of our first class. The journaling exercise is one that I encourage you to play with every day during this course. Set a timer for five minutes and write at the top of a page in...
October Awake in The Nest: Consistency
October's Awake in The Nest recording is live! (Available to all Nest members at the Silver level and higher.) This month we broke down the charge we have on the concept of responsibility. I also share an energy healing tool that I have been using for 20 years to...
An Ode to Angry Women
This is an ode to angry women. If your goal is to keep things as they have been then by all means, be sweet. Give up your needs, practice your best vacant look, and get ready to swallow a thousand razor sharp words when their hand starts creeping up your skirt. But if...
The Power of a Home Yoga Practice (and How to Set One Up)
As a yoga teacher, I risk being accused of blasphemy by saying this: The power of yoga is not in a group class. The purpose of yoga is to connect with our inner bliss, that god-thing I wrote about last month. Certainly that can be bolstered by a community who...
Things You Didn’t Know The Little Mermaid Was Teaching You
We often lack the words to explain difficult concepts to young children. Heartbreak. Selfishness. Deceit. As adults we must contend with these while also trying to protect our children from, or prepare them for the experience of these realities. Enter the fairy tale....
A Question of Consistency
Consistency is about showing up as much as it is about not showing up. For four years, I worked for and studied under a teacher of Ayurveda and yoga who was known to be a strict disciplinarian. Her students reported daily at 5:00 a.m. for nearly three hours of...
Ayurvedic (Un)Recipe: Whole Wheat Ghee Pie Crust
My grandmother instilled in me a love of homemade pie crust. I remember her apron -- blue and white checked like Dorothy’s dress in The Wizard of Oz -- swinging to the rhythm of her rolling pin as she pressed out the crusts that she would fill with her rich, creamy...
The Right Relationship with Food
We are terribly confused about food. A five-second Google search offers 6,000 ways to deepen my confusion -- and that’s before I go back in time. From the rise of processed food after World War II to the current obsessions with and aversions to fat, carbs, and sugar,...
Who Is Your God?
(audio version below) Though I was not raised under any religion, I began praying at a very young age. I would lie in bed and talk to my ceiling before I went to sleep. It was decorated with small glow-in-the-dark stars, so it had the effect of looking up into the...
September Awake in The Nest: Nourishment
September's Awake in The Nest recording is live! (Available to all Nest members at the Silver level and higher.) This month we are paying homage to our original source of nourishment -- our mothers -- by writing them love letters. You may not ever send this to your...
The Wisdom of a Good Meal
(audio version below) The first time you scoop a date out of a jar of ghee in which it has been resting, you will feel like a sinner. But go ahead -- pop it into your mouth. Enjoy it with all the bliss that is rightfully yours and claim your place at the table of...
The Secret about Healing
I practiced as an intuitive healer for 13 years before I began studying Ayurveda. This means I apply Ayurveda to my client work quite differently from other practitioners. My experience diving into the energy of people -- seeing the ways that their bodies carry the...
How We’ll Get through This
Do whales get anxious before their treks across the ocean to their winter homes? Do the mountains tremble as the first flakes of snow dance around their peaks? And the trees...do they cry out in pain when the winds blow their branches bare? No, I think it is just us,...
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“On this path effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure.”
The Bhagavad Gita 2:40