How to Stop Getting Hurt in Love

Too often, women are stuck in cycles where they feel like they are constantly getting hurt in relationships. These patterns look like:

• Falling in love “too quickly” 
• Being rejected for strong emotions
• Chasing unavailable partners
• Feeling shame for being too sexual (or not sexual enough) 
• Finding themselves in relationships with the same kind of person over and over again

If you’ve ever talked to your girlfriends or sisters, you quickly realize that this is not an individual problem. In fact, most women experience these challenges – almost universally. 

But this isn’t our nature. In fact, quite the opposite. 

All of these negative patterns women experience come from one central problem – we aren’t taught how to own and honor our power in the realm of love, sex, and relationships.

And when we don’t see our power in this area where we have the greatest authority, we don’t believe we have power in most other aspects of our lives.

Here’s the roadmap that the Heartbreak Cure offers to get you to see how much power you actually have:

1. Writing as a tool for self-discovery. (mind)

You’ll receive creative writing practices and guided meditations to turn your story of heartbreak into your personal legend.  

2. Somatic practices to make peace with painful emotions. (body)

I’ll share practices to tap into the hidden wisdom in your body. Learn how to unravel “stuckness,” tap into what you really want, and safely feel your feelings. 

3. Make erotic magic to transform grief and expand into pleasure (spirit)

Pleasure is a kind of magic dust that can transform anything it touches. You’ll receive a spellbook of rituals that will allow you to find your erotic power, contain it, and use it for your highest good.   

Through this program, you’ll learn how to transform the pain you felt from a break up, unrequited love, or unmet longing into the story of your personal goddess awakening.  

Sign up for the Heartbreak Cure and and turn your pain into power.

Perhaps it’s not that love is a lesser power, but that we’ve made the violence louder than it deserves to be. 

If that’s the truth, then it’s up to us to make love sing louder. Starting with our personal stories of heartbreak. 

By reframing the stories of our pain as the way we found our power… 

By calling back our energy from the ones we loved…

By bandaging our bruises and learning to be proud of what we have risked in the name of love…

This is your love story, told your way.  

The Heartbreak Cure is for you if: 

• You have lingering, undigested feelings about a past heartbreak – anger, grief, shame – and need to move on.
• You fall in love easily, and have a hard time letting go.
• You feel yourself pulled between cynicism and an undying belief in love. 
• You have struggled to define your energetic boundaries with partners and lovers and want to learn how to protect yourself without closing off.
• You have a poetic heart and a desire to use creativity as a tool for healing. 
• You know that you have a story to tell, and are ready to write it.

If you have come to realize that the world does not value love like you do – and you want to be part of changing this narrative, sign up for the Heartbreak Cure today and learn to lead with your heart wide open.

My Love Story

I believe in love. I know it sounds naive to some, but this is a power that has defined my life, for better, not for worse. 

My love for love is so great that I wrote my first book, Letters to My Lovers, all about what I’ve learned in the process of keeping my heart permeable. 

If you’ve read my book, you know that my heart has been broken. Ripped to shreds. Tossed aside like yesterday’s leftovers. Yet still I stand. My decades of training in spirituality, creative power, and somatic expression has taught me how to integrate these experiences and turn them into something holy. 

Each time I’ve loved and lost, I have learned core truths about who I am and what I am here to do. And one of the things I know I am here to do is to spread the message of how to love – smarter, better, and deeper. 

My story is about learning to both protect my heart and keep it open. To turn toward myself as the main character of my story and still allow others to knock on my door. 

My Training

The Heartbreak Cure brings together three of my greatest passions – writing, mysticism, and human sexuality. 

I’ve been a writer since I could hold a pen, and a voracious reader who has consumed stories and poems that center our human search for love as reason enough to keep living. I believe that creativity is one of the only universal things we can turn to when we want to make the senselessness of life make sense. 

Attracted to mysticism and spirituality all my life, I’ve spent the past 25 years in intensive study of intuitive healing, traditional witchcraft, the deeper teachings of yoga, earth-based healing traditions, the power of the feminine, inner union, emotional alchemy and more. The central message I’ve received through these is that love is the fabric of the universe, and the human experience is to routinely forget this truth and forgive ourselves anyway.    

I’ve always been intrigued by human sexuality. I’ve studied its power to heal (and hurt), explored all shapes and styles of relationships (monogamous long-term partnerships, open relating, queer and hetero, casual, and D/s), held the hands of sexual assault survivors as a trauma-informed advocate, and studied various techniques to harness and direct erotic energy (somatic sex education, kink, and sex magic). 

I weave everything I’ve learned into this program, the Heartbreak Cure. 

Whether you do this course to fall back in love with yourself, recover from a brutal breakup, or prepare for your next partner, it’s an honor to guide your journey.