Befriend your body. Rewrite the story of your life.
Hey There –
Welcome to the Journal.
My name is Sonja and I am a healer, erotic educator, and writer of magic words.
Here on the journal, you’ll find posts with inquiries and practices that guide you into your body so you can get in touch with the life force within it. I write about topics like eroticism, intimacy, practical intuition, embodiment, relationships, sex, and non woo-woo spirituality.
Check in each week for new posts. If you like what you read, check out my 1:1 work and group programs.
BodyStory: Satisfaction Week 3 Recording
Welcome to the story of your satisfaction. Welcome to week 3 of BodyStory: Satisfaction. Below you'll find access to the video recording (available to those who have purchased the course) and the three journal prompts we used in this week's class. For those who are...
How to Taste
It’s not so much that food is yours to take but that you are taken by food. Sure, you may have cooked it. You may have even grown it. But like all things that are created, the food belongs to life. So give it its due. Consider the way every bite gathers the ripples...
BodyStory: Satisfaction Sour/Astringent Tastes Recipe
It’s time for another taste test, and another part of the meal we’re creating in BodyStory: Satisfaction. This week’s recipe focuses on the sour and astringent tastes with a mint-rose lassi. Lassi is a yogurt (sour) drink that is often served to support digestion. In...
The Wisdom of Receiving
(Listen to the audio version below) To truly teach the wisdom of receiving I would have to leave this entire page blank. But for the sake of your entertainment and education, I will use the words that are available to me, though I share them with the caveat that none...
BodyStory: Satisfaction Week 2 Recording
Welcome to the story of your satisfaction. Welcome to week 2 of BodyStory: Satisfaction. Below you'll find access to the video recording (available to those who have purchased the course) and the three journal prompts we used in this week's class. For those who are...
BodyStory: Satisfaction Sweet Taste Recipe
Let’s take satisfaction into your kitchen. The recipes I’ll share with you in this course lead up to a complete meal, each week focused on one specific taste. This week’s recipe honors the sweet taste. Sorry, it won’t be a dessert first kind of day. We’re going to...
Yoga nidra for better sleep
For a flower to open, first it must be closed. For you to awaken, first you must sleep. This is nidra for nidra. The practice of yoga nidra (yogic sleep) is not intended to put you to sleep, but it can allow you to enter a state of deep relaxation that many say is...
Why I Left
It was impossible for me to know why I did it at the time I did it. I had my reasons. I laid them out logically on the table and argued my point. But whatever I said at the time wasn't the real reason. What I learned in the time after, through lightning flashes of...
BodyStory: Satisfaction Week 1 Recording
Welcome to the story of your satisfaction. Welcome to week 1 of BodyStory: Satisfaction. Below you'll find access to the video recording (available to those who have purchased the course) and the three journal prompts we used in this week's class. For those who are...
April Awake in The Nest: Awakening
April's Awake in The Nest recording is live! (Available to all Nest members at the Silver level and higher.) This month we play with a few practices that support a healthy upregulation of the nervous system (think excitement, enthusiasm, outward gaze). Often in...
Wake Up to Granola in Kapha Season
I think the Ayurveda police are going to have my head for this one. Granola is definitely not listed in Ayurvedic texts. I’ve never attended a class on the merits of toasted oats. In fact, I’ve attended a few lectures talking about how dry, crunchy granola is a...
Now I Know
It’s impossible to know in the moment of doing something big why you are doing it. You may have your reasons at the time. You may lay each of them logically out on the table in front of you and argue your points with whomever is listening. But you don’t really know...
The Wisdom of Awakening
(Listen to the audio version below) What would it mean to have a sunrise kind of life? Maybe you’ve never heard these words – a sunrise kind of life – strung together like this before. But perhaps simply hearing them creates a welcome sensation in your body, one of...
The Strength to Feel
What if feeling what we feel is the greatest strength that exists? Too often we uphold the ideal of strength as stoicism, sobriety, or indifference. We are taught that we are at our strongest when no appeal, whether from compassion or anger, can sway us. But that’s...
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“On this path effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure.”
The Bhagavad Gita 2:40