I want your broken heart. I want the scar tissue and sutures. I want the bleeding and infested wounds, covered in scabs and bandages. Show me how they hurt you. Then show me how you rose up anyway. Tell me about the first day you realized you were going to make it....
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The Wisdom of Relationships
(listen to the audio version) A simple truth about humans – our bodies need other bodies. We need each other to be seen/to see. To be held/to hold. To be received/to receive. Relationships are the blood and heartbeat of life. But they are also the rope, the concrete...
Why BDSM is my Favorite Spiritual Practice
(listen to the audio version) Of all the spiritual practices that I do, the ones I value the most are those that bring me fully into my body. Of all of the practices that connect me this way, I value sex among the highest. Of all my spiritual sexual practices,...
The Wisdom of Risk
(listen to the audio version) When should you take a risk? Your body will tell you. I once applied for a job that asked me to take a personality quiz. Not realizing that the quiz had somehow pegged me as highly risk-averse, I was confused when I was hit with a slew of...
Bad Romance
(listen to the audio version) My heart has been broken a million times, and I’m proud to say it. As I trace my fingers along the scars of my love line – from breakups that lasted longer than the relationships themselves, repeated abandonment, infidelity, divorce, and...
The Wisdom of Perfection
(Listen to the audio version below) I’d like to introduce you to a perfect beauty. She's not Instagram perfect. Not Hollywood perfect. She's not photoshopped and collagen plumped, filtered and cropped. The kind of perfect that I’m escorting to this party is different....
Asking for What You Want in Bed is Practice for Life
I once met a woman who spent $5,000 on an empowerment program just to learn how to tell her husband, “A little to the left.” I hope it worked for her, because it did for me. It took four decades for me to realize that I had not just a right, but a spiritual duty to...
Nature is a generous lover
Nature is a generous lover. Though in the winter you may not believe her to be so. In those cold months, her embrace can feel unbearable. Her icy skin is pressed against you so tightly you struggle to breathe. You scratch at her form, desperate to see the sun again....
How to Taste
It’s not so much that food is yours to take but that you are taken by food. Sure, you may have cooked it. You may have even grown it. But like all things that are created, the food belongs to life. So give it its due. Consider the way every bite gathers the ripples...
The Wisdom of Receiving
(Listen to the audio version below) To truly teach the wisdom of receiving I would have to leave this entire page blank. But for the sake of your entertainment and education, I will use the words that are available to me, though I share them with the caveat that none...

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