I have found a cure for all that ails our hearts. It’s called living with a broken heart. Give me a minute of your time -- it gets better. The History of Your Broken Heart Anyone who is living wisely will have their heart broken -- regularly, routinely, effectively....
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The Wisdom of Confusion
(audio file below) The world is very dark where I live this time of year. By 4:30, it’s nighttime. The sun doesn’t begin yawning its way up until close to 8:30 the next morning. It’s disconcerting to live this way all winter -- It’s a sudden blanket thrown on the day...
How to Act
If you believe that laying down arms is the only way to surrender, you're not getting the whole picture. We get this concept confused when it comes to others’ behavior. Their behavior may be wrong, unethical, criminal, unjust, or simply not what we would do. Humans...
The Secret to Good Sex is Not What You Think
My husband and I once spent a very hot winter together. Not quite like that. Then again, it was exactly like that. I wrote a bit about it here. It was a hot winter because we were living in the tropics. It was a hot winter because we were fighting like cats and dogs...
November Awake in The Nest: Surrender
November's Awake in The Nest recording is live! (Available to all Nest members at the Silver level and higher.) Our theme this month is surrender. So we dove into the concept of safety, a critical component of feeling okay to surrender. I draw upon the work of one of...
Yoga Nidra: Safe Surrender
This month’s theme in The Nest is surrender. So how could I not offer a yoga nidra practice? Yoga nidra is all about surrender, because when we fall into this state of openness we let go. But what do we let go into? The embrace of the divine. For those of you new to...
The Red Flag of the White Flag
Surrender is a white flag that raises a ton of red flags. We are taught to defend at all costs. We are taught that letting our guard take a break leaves us at risk. Yet we are never taught that keeping our shield up all the time keeps the good stuff out too. Of course...
The Wisdom of Surrender
When you are tired. When you are overwhelmed. When you have screamed all there is to scream or have swallowed every whimper until silence is all that greets you. When the thing you thought was gone for good shows up with a suitcase. When you are out of ideas and...
A Witch at Home
I need to clear something up: I am a witch. I’ve secretly known this since childhood -- I used to silently cheer on the crone with the green face (I mean, that girl dropped a house on her sister and stole her best shoes). But I had no one to share this hidden truth...
Devotion to the Day
My kitchen sink was once the site of my greatest sorrow, but is now home of my redemption. As the evening fills the sky outside, I am often standing in front of a sink full of dishes and a messy house, counting down the minutes until I can do an hour or two of leisure...

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