Have you ever found yourself in bed with someone thinking, “If I just wait a while longer and eventually they will do something that I like”? Let me save you the headache – that’s not how good s*x happens. Here’s the thing – every body is different. Meaning that the...
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How to change a woman’s life
Women: If you’re ready to change your life, stop apologizing for your erotic power. Women spend too much time apologizing. And there’s nothing we apologize more for than how we express our erotic energy. We apologize for everything about it. For wanting too much. For...
This one’s for the good girls (who want to redefine what it means to be “bad”)
You’ve been taught that there is a way to be a woman. Or, more specifically, you’ve been taught there are two ways to be a woman. The right way = always focusing on serving others’ needs in bed. Never enjoying sex too much. Never wearing your skirts too tight or...
How not to fear falling in love
Here’s a bittersweet pill on your screen: We cannot love without losing. I discovered this when I was writing my book, Letters to My Lovers. And when I first felt this sword in my throat, it stung. Until I learned it didn’t have to. So let me show you how to swallow...
Stop searching for your soulmate
Why this modern day fairy tale keeps you from your true power in love. Whenever I hear a client talk about wanting to find their soulmate, their twin flame, their divine union, the “one,” I know exactly the path our work will go. Namely: expanding their understanding...
This is not a Valentine’s Day post
Roses are red. Violets are blue. I’m a lover conflicted about Valentine’s Day. How about you? When I was an adolescent, my middle school sold pink carnations on Valentine’s Day. The idea was that the boys could buy them for their girlfriends (or desired girlfriends)....
Why love is your best investment right now
Let me sit you down. Let me brew you some tea. And let me spill it all over the living room floor. Chaos is reigning. Trust is dwindling. And you know it. I’m not just talking about the way that politics is ripping families apart. I’m talking about the way that we...
Three things Trump teaches us about how (not) to be an epic lover
I woke up this morning, an American living in Canada, and immediately checked my phone. The first thing I saw was a text from a friend sharing a link to election results. She’s the most anti-politics person I know, so I knew if she was sending me something about the...
How to Be Lonely
How to be lonely in a world of 8 billion people. Don’t text back. Don’t text first. Wonder why no one ever calls. Never call anyone. Be too busy with work. Have a roster. Hold out for perfect. Be open for everyone who comes along. Fuck them on the first date and...
How to Protect Your Heart
We are at war with love. War…with love. At a glance, this seems like a contradiction. The concept of battle does not match the dreamy gaze of the poets. But. The horror stories are adding up. The level of deceit, lies, and heartbreak that exists in the dating world...

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