I have killed a lot of babies. (Plant babies, to be clear.) It starts like this: Put a seed in the ground and get all excited when it pops its head up. Give it too much or too little water/light/touch/air and find that the next day my little sprout has slumped over in...
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When Things Get Leggy
I nursed a tiny stem of a tarragon plant all winter. Somehow it hunkered down and made it, despite being pressed up against the cold window for months. I wish I could say the same for my parsley plant. The parsley needed a bath of sun for six hours a day. All I could...
In Your Lane. At Your Pace.
The notion of a finish line in healing is a trap. There is actually no end to it. Nothing grows at the same rate and nothing matures under the same conditions. Knowing that the nature of healing is endless can also be a trap. Because imagine this being the thought...
Deciding Who Lives and Who Dies
The hardest job of the gardener is when too many sprouts come up. Here is the incredible pain of the Great Mama -- deciding who lives and who dies. Even in fertile times, life is built upon a cycle of creation, preservation, and destruction (a more palatable word for...
The Conflicting Power of Sunlight
Sunlight is one of the most direct sources of prana (life force) available. It -- along with the prana available in fresh air, water, and soil -- is the reason vegetables do very good things for our bodies. But every great power has a dark side, even this glowing orb...
How to Take Care (A Crash Course in Self-Care for Caretakers)
When my daughter was born I asked for two weeks of no visitors. Not even grandparents. Not even well-meaning friends who wanted to drop off food. I’m certain I offended somebody in this request, but I did not care. What I cared about was transitioning into being a...
Terrible Reasons to Create, Part 3: Filling a Hole
Once more, for the ones in the back: Everything you do is an act of creativity. This means everyone is a “creative type.” It’s just that some people write, or make music, and others create spreadsheets or ways of caring for others. So get right with the reason you...
Terrible Reasons to Create, Part 2: Apologies
Creativity is not just about what we make. Creative energy is the energy of life itself; as long as we are alive in our bodies we are creating. Every interaction is a form of creation. Every decision, every meal we make or eat. Every breath. It’s our intention that...
Terrible Reasons to Create, Part 1: Legitimacy
Creative energy is the most powerful force that humans carry. This is our power to make: Manuscripts Meals Business plans Orgasms Relationships Children Everything you can see All powerful forces, including creative power, are inherently neutral; they are shaped by...
Quiet and Underground
I learned this one midnight hour when I was nursing my daughter ages ago: Quiet places are the most potent. Yet we are afraid to go under. We are afraid to stop talking. We are terrified of losing our phones. Or being stuck at home for a year. Why? Because we have a...

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