Have you ever found yourself in bed with someone thinking, “If I just wait a while longer and eventually they will do something that I like”?
Let me save you the headache – that’s not how good s*x happens.
Here’s the thing – every body is different. Meaning that the route to your pleasure is completely unlike the other routes your partner has been on. Some people like soft touch. Some people like firm. Some people like doggy. Some people hate it.
Now combine this with the proliferation of p0rn and the pseudo-education it provides around what should feel good to all women, and you can see why we have the 0rgasm gap we have.
This isn’t a message telling you that no one will ever get you. Nope – not at all.
What I’m saying is that the best s*x of your life comes when you take the position as the captain of your body. You get to have preferences, strong dislikes, and neutral feelings about how you’re touched, spoken to, and cared for after.
Not only do you get to have these feelings, you also get to ask for them in a way that makes a good time great.
It doesn’t need to sound like barking orders.
It doesn’t need to sound like an apology.
It can be done in a clear, sexy way that creates more connection, more pleasure, and more stories you’ll cherish for your whole life.
If you’re ready to explore how to find your voice, you’ve got to first go to the source of it.
In my latest free workshop, She Speaks, I offered a simple meditation to connect with your desire so you can authentically speak it. You can access the recording here (and when you do, you’ll get access to all the free workshops I offer).
Something tells me you’ve been waiting for this.
