Befriend your body. Rewrite the story of your life.

1:1 Bespoke Erotica

Hello beautiful being.

I’m so honored that you are coming to me for 1:1 work to craft a bespoke erotic story. 

 
This work is for you if you want to dare to explore an erotic fantasy in a safe play space, but aren’t quite sure where to begin. It’s perfect for you to stretch the limits of your erotic imagination, unpack shame around something you “should” not want, or simply want to build your sexual vocabulary. 

 
This form is a confidential place for you to share the details of your sexuality as it relates to the story you want to come to life. Give me as much information as you would like to include, and we’ll begin working to open your erotic imagination. 

Bespoke Erotica + 1:1 Guidance

Before we begin... Are you above the legal age in your local jurisdiction to access sexual content? Before we begin... Are you above the legal age in your local jurisdiction to access sexual content?

Please use the email address you used for registration & payment.

A peak erotic experience (your sexual "highlight reel") - Sexual or other trauma and how you feel a custom erotica story would address that - Your history with sex therapy and/or erotic bodywork (sexological bodywork, sensual massage, sex workers, sexual surrogates, tantra, etc.)

Ex: How old when you first masturbated? Were you ever caught? What kinds of fantasies or tools? How often?

If you could choose to feel a certain way in sex, what would it be? (Choose as many as you like)

Feel free to share threads of thoughts, flashes of ideas, or words. Here are some prompts to get you started: I have always wanted to... The kind of person I want to have in my bed looks like/sounds like/feels like... Something I want but have never admitted to another person is... ***Note: I welcome your desires, from vanilla to extra kinky. However, I won't take commissions for works involving fantasies about individuals below the age of 18 in any form.

Informed Consent & Agreement Please check each of the boxes to demonstrate your understanding of the following guidelines around our work together:

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The Journal

Black Culture Is American Culture

Black music has fed mainstream culture like a sacred spring. The songs, the dances, the soul — all of it has laid the foundation of everything that we want from pop culture. A foundation that is appreciated, but hung out to dry in the sun until it’s faded enough to make it sell.

Why is Overrated

Why is Overrated

I taught a course a few Mother’s Days ago for women seeking to rewrite the stories of the birth of their children (I have an itch to offer it again this year, so keep a lookout if you missed it). In it, I got to witness a gap between something that is commonly known among midwives, doulas, and witchy wisdom guides: we don’t get the birth we had imagined.

When Clowns Get Crowned

When Clowns Get Crowned

I was certain that Donald Trump would never be elected. “Él es un payaso,” (He is a clown) I explained to my server in Mexico back in late 2015 with a casual wave of my hand. My server maintained a worried expression. His family was in the U.S. and what Trump was saying then was a direct threat. One that became a reality.

“On this path effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure.”

The Bhagavad Gita 2:40